At $109, it’s oddly more expensive than the Vesper 2, but no

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The Rechargeable is Finn’s favorite of Magic Wand’s offerings to recommend because it is cordless and features a smooth silicone head and quieter motor. Some finger vibrators come in the design of a finger sleeve that easily slips over your digit of choice to make solo play or foreplay as easy as pressing a button (or your erogenous zones). Other devices are slightly larger and pebble-shaped to stimulate more surface area at once. Look no further than a bullet vibrator—the lipstick-shaped We-Vibe Tango X is tops. “[It] offers vibrations that penetrate through the skin to stimulate the entire clitoris,” sex educator Javay Frye-Nekrasova, MEd, previously told SELF.

We instructed our testers to use each toy themselves and to incorporate these toys into partner play when possible. We’ve also solicited long-term testing feedback from folks who bought their first vibrators based on the advice in this guide. But buying sex toys can be an intimidating experience for newbies and experienced users alike, and not just due to the buyer’s shyness. High-quality sex toys are often expensive and nonreturnable, you have hundreds (if not thousands) of sex-toy models to choose from, and the criteria for what makes a good sex toy can be highly subjective. Determining what toy will work best for you based on reviews can be difficult because every person’s sexual response is different. Nobody wants to spend $100-plus on a toy that turns out to be a dud.

The Point Plus allows you to experiment with different textures and vibrations, thanks to the included sleeves. Place them over the smooth silicone bullet (which boasts 20 powerful modes) and enjoy the new sensations on your clit. SELF’s former commerce editor adores this vibe from sexual wellness company Maude, which blends an egg, finger, and wand vibrator in one.

It’s more discreet than other vibrators or strokers featured in this guide; with up to nine vibrators activated at once, testers indicated that the motor was on the quieter side. And just like other Kiiroo products on this list, this device can also be linked to others via the brand’s FeelConnect app. On top of that, vibrating sex toys can make sexual satisfaction more accessible for some people. Thanks to the rose vibrator that went viral on TikTok , the best clitoral suction toys are all the rage right now, and for good reason. With a protruding circular mouth designed to encompass the clitoris, they’re designed to replicate the feeling of cunnilingus from a partner. They’re known to get the job done quickly – ideal if you’re in a rush.

The original rabbit hopped onto the scene in the mid-1990s, popularised by its appearance in the hit TV show Sex and the City, they’ve been top-sellers ever since. At $109, it’s oddly more expensive than the Vesper 2, but no one ever said luxury was cheap. It’s USB-C rechargeable (with a proprietary plug on one end), whisper-quiet, even on turbo mode, and comes in silver, rose gold, black, and 24-karat gold plating, with a matching adjustable 26-inch chain. At the time vibrator, the world had never seen anything like this vibrator necklace, and because of its originality, it garnered fans worldwide. Patented by Martin Engineering, Vibrolator® vibrators are the original ball vibrators and still provide a reliable and efficient solution to flow problems. “No matter what, for a number of toys, the best and easiest use involves at least a couple of drops of lubricant for comfort,” says Fulbright.

Better vibrations and new sensations in orgasm achievements are available, if only you’ll reach out and grab them. With all due respect to the hand, even your favorite meal gets boring—especially once you see what else is on the menu. You’ll also find a small button on the loop, which allows you to cycle through the five different speeds and five vibration patterns this plug has to offer. While it is a tad inconvenient to have one button to switch through ten different settings, it is nice that there’s lots of variation, as anal play provides some very unique sensations that people can have strong preferences about. Unbound’s toys also come with helpful user guides (how this not a thing for every sex toy brand, we don’t know) so you can get the most out of the Shimmy. This good-looking vibrator stands out for its unique tear-shape design.

They either need better placement or should be less sensitive to the touch. I highly doubt I’m going to be the only one riding high on specific vibrations or patterns, then get my orgasm kicked to the curb with one wrong move. I stand by the fact that it’s fantastic and serves up one heck of an orgasm (and in record time!), but Womanizer has been doing that for lots of people with vulvas for a long time now.

Insertable up to 17cm, the Silencer features a rounded tip and a silky-smooth shaft that’s ribbed for extra pleasure. It’s battery operated and completely waterproof, so go ahead and get your rub-a-dub-dub on in the tub. Designed to be felt but not heard, the Silencer is a whisper-quiet classic vibrator that comes from the “sexual happiness people” over at Lovehoney. If just three vibration options sounds too limiting, might we suggest the Minna Ola?

Because the toys are worn inside your undies, you can use them pretty much anywhere—on a date night and beyond—without a soul knowing. “From the couch to the grocery store to the movie theater, there are endless options for discreet indoor or outdoor play sessions,” says G Stone, certified clinical sexologist and founder of Straight But Not Narrow Ladies. If you’re interested in other kinds of sex toys, be sure to check our guides, including the Best Sex Toys, Best Vibrators, Best Sex Machines, and Best Lubes. These days, there are all sorts of high-tech sex toys on the market, from VR porn to teledildonics. But for couples who are physically apart, nothing quite does the trick like a good old-fashioned vibrator. Those who enjoy using remote vibrators during solo play tend to be people who are comfortable with their own bodies and desires.